|In the past, many generations|
lived under one roof!
Multi-Generational Families are Becoming More Common
There are several reasons why this has begun to change again. Ethnic groups who move here from other countries want multiple generations to live in the same home. The recent recession has caused many young adults to continue to live with their parents. Baby Boomers who were not well-prepared for retirement or who lost their savings in the stock market, have sometimes been forced to move in with their adult children.
According to a report on ABC News, there are now over 51 million Americans who are living in households with more than two generations. Since there are approximately 307,000,000 residents of the United States, this means that about one in six people are now living in multi-generational homes, which means at least three generations are living together. Now that this has become so common again, ABC also had some suggestions for making this lifestyle work.
How to Get Along in a Multi-Generational Living Situation
First, every generation needs their own private space. In their news story, they showed examples of families that had added onto their homes to accommodate the new family members. In other cases, families had fixed up basement areas, or cordoned off sections of the home to create small "mother-in-law" apartments.
In addition, they suggested that everyone have clearly defined roles and responsibilities in the family unit. Rather than everyone trying to do the same things, the family needs to decide who is responsible for the yard work, the cooking, the dishes, the laundry, the childcare, etc. Then, there is less duplication of effort, as well as less competition, criticism and confusion.
The upside of this arrangement is that many of the family members who were interviewed said that they felt the new family arrangement not only saved them money, but also brought the family closer.
Is Multi-Generational Living Right for Everyone?
However, I recognize that this living arrangement is not for everyone. Although we have four daughters who lived with us for a period of time spanning more than two decades, we now enjoy having our own residence. At the same time, we look forward to seeing our grandkids frequently. In fact, we see two of them at least once or twice a week. Although we have no plans to change our current living situation, I believe it would be possible for my husband and I to live with one of our daughters if we had to ... as long as we had our own private space and followed the other suggestions listed above. Because of that, I thought others might also benefit from some helpful guidelines about how to make a multi generational family work!
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