Friday, August 30, 2024

Four Ways to Leave a Legacy to Your Loved Ones


As you get older, leaving a legacy may become increasingly important to you. It's rather comforting to know that a part of you will remain after you are gone. Your family and friends will never forget you, but if you have a "legacy," that is something which can go beyond basic family memories.

If you want to ensure that your family has what they need to feel safe and cared for after you pass on, this guide will help you understand what leaving a legacy means and what you can do to ensure you are remembered fondly.

First let’s start with "what exactly is a legacy?" In short, a legacy is something transmitted by or received from an ancestor or predecessor or from the past. It could be financial, something you create, or as a result of the people you have touched while alive. The good news is there is still time to start building a legacy which will outlive you in the years ahead.

Leaving a legacy for your family is a powerful way to ensure that your values, memories, and wisdom continue to influence future generations. Considering how you wish to be remembered will help you create meaningful connections which transcend time. Here are a few ways to leave a legacy for your loved ones that resonates with them.

1. Create a Detailed Will

Creating a detailed will and testament, as well as a trust, is one of the most impactful ways to leave a legacy. A will ensures that your assets are distributed according to your wishes while providing clear, legally binding instructions for your loved ones.

These assets may include cars, homes, investments, jewelry, art, trinkets, and any land you own. If you want to leave land to family members, consider hiring a company for multigenerational land management to handle finances and organization.

Take the time to include personal messages or instructions for each family member. Your parting words add a personal touch to the document, reminding your loved ones of the values and memories they share with you.  We told our daughters in our will that their continued friendship they felt for each other was far more important than any financial assets they would receive from us, and to work hard to maintain those relationships. We sincerely hope they do.

2. Share Your Life Story

Sharing your life story, lessons, and values is another meaningful way to leave a legacy. Consider writing a memoir or recording interviews where you discuss significant moments in your life and the lessons you have learned along the way. Sharing life events helps you come to terms with the past and strengthens relationships with family members.

If you are unsure of how to write a memoir, consider using this helpful guide: "The Memoir Workbook." (Ad) It will take you step-by-step through the process. 

3. Establish a Family Tradition

Creating a family tradition serves as a living legacy for future generations. These shared practices help family members feel like they belong and ensure they participate in maintaining the legacy you have established.

For instance, you could start a family volunteering day, where every year, your family gathers to contribute to a local charity or community project. Giving back to the community is a great way to establish a strong tradition and ensure your family connects to others.  Your family might like it so much that they continue the tradition for generations to come.

4. Invest in Their Education

Investing in the education of your loved ones is a lasting way to show them you care about their future. Set up trust funds or contribute to education savings accounts to provide them with financial support for their future learning endeavors. Whether college tuition or vocational training, they will appreciate the investment in their interests.

There are many ways to leave a legacy for your loved ones. It’s a way to ensure your values, memories, and lessons live on long after you are gone. Take the steps outlined above and create a legacy which benefits your family financially and enriches their lives emotionally.

 

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Thursday, August 15, 2024

Satisfying Ways to Fill Your Retirement Years

 

Many retirees struggle to feel busy or fulfilled without a full-time job. It's a common problem lots of people face when they finally reach this stage of their life. Transitioning to retirement is a strange feeling. In fact, having more time for yourself can almost feel wrong for some people. Don't worry, though. We will be taking a look at a few satisfying ways to fill your retirement years so that you can avoid these feelings of unfulfillment.

After the carefree days of childhood, most of our lives feel like a nonstop high-speed rollercoaster. The years are filled with work, social demands, relationships, hobbies, habits, chores, and more, filling most days to the brim with possibilities. However, something happens for many people when they retire: they suddenly have a lot more time on their hands. Though this prospect is exciting for most, some people find the transition leaves them feeling restless.

After nearly an entire life of always having something to do and somewhere to be, this newfound freedom can make even the most excited retirees a little antsy. Fortunately, retirement offers a golden opportunity to invest time in what truly matters to you, not just what you are obligated to invest in.  Here are some satisfying ways to fill your retirement years which will help you overcome your anxiety about the transition.

Invest Even More in Your Relationships

Having long-term healthy relationships is one of the most important factors influencing our well-being. When you retire, you have the unique opportunity to invest in your relationships like never before. Deepen your connections with family and friends, host gatherings, plan trips together, or simply enjoy quiet evenings reminiscing over dinner. These moments of connection strengthen your bonds and create lasting memories that enrich your life.

Do What You've Always Wanted To Do

During retirement you can allow yourself the freedom to explore new experiences without the constraints of a work schedule. Every day is a vacation now, and we should take advantage of that.

You can create a retirement bucket list which includes all the things you have wanted to do and see, but have not gotten around to, yet. Checking these items off your list will give you goals to work towards and contribute to the satisfaction that you are honoring your life's desires.  My husband and I definitely worked on our bucket list when we reached our 50s and 60s.  We had traveled in our younger years to nearly state in the U.S., but never made it to Alaska.  We ticked that last state off our list after we retired. 

Pick Up an Complex Hobby

Most people have hobbies throughout their lives, but don't have the freedom to invest in more complex, time-consuming hobbies. When you retire, you do! What have you always dreamed of becoming good at?

Does starting a large garden sound interesting to you? Have you wanted to get started in classic car restoration? Maybe you've always wanted to really get into woodworking, painting, or pottery. Whatever the case, these hobbies require some financial and time investments which younger, working adults often can't afford. Retirement is your chance to invest in these interests.

Volunteer for a Cause Which Matters to You

Finally, giving back can be one of the most fulfilling opportunities in retirement. Find a cause which you care deeply about and invest some of your time in helping others. Volunteering not only benefits your community, but also fosters a sense of purpose and connection in your life, enriching your retirement experience.  My husband and I have volunteered for years at a local homeless shelter. Other friends volunteer with their church, or at a food bank, or a local school. Whatever you do, take the time to enjoy it.

These satisfying ways to fill your retirement years can help you embrace this exciting chapter in your life. The goal is not to fill your time with busywork and obligations, such as you had during your working years, but rather to choose commitments which add value to your life and those of the people around you. Doing so will likely lead to a more fulfilling retirement that doesn't make you feel bored or restless.  Staying active, challenging your brain, and socializing with others are also activities which researchers believe will help you postpone dementia.  So, get out there and enjoy retirement to the fullest!

You may also want to read up on more great ways to stay busy in retirement. I recommend this book: "Retirement Heaven or Hell: 9 Principles for Designing Your Post Career Lifestyle." (Ad) It will really help you think about how to get the most out of your retirement years.

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