Saturday, May 9, 2020

Doctor Visits and Covid-19: Dealing with Medical Appointments

While many Americans, especially senior citizens, are staying socially isolated at home as much as possible, one concern many of them have is how to handle their medical appointments with their doctors, dentists, physical therapists, chiropractors and other healthcare providers. Nearly everyone is asking the same questions. Should you go to the doctor's office or try to handle everything over the phone or during a video chat?  What should you do about routine physical examinations, getting your teeth cleaned, or emergency healthcare?  How should you handle a change in your health, such as heart palpitations, difficulty breathing, an unusual rash, sudden exhaustion or weakness?

Follow the Instructions of Your Healthcare Provider

Since Covid-19 began sweeping through the country, most healthcare providers and physicians have written or emailed their patients and provided them with information regarding what changes they have made to protect their patients from Covid-19 during medical visits.  Make sure you read this information and follow their instructions. In an emergency, doing the right thing could save you time and, possibly, your life.

My California healthcare provider, Kaiser Permanente, has reorganized their offices so that certain locations are exclusively for patients with respiratory problems and suspected cases of Covid-19, while the remaining locations are now reserved for patients with other healthcare issues.  Prescriptions can be mailed to you or, if needed immediately, picked up curbside outside their in-house pharmacies.  If you must go into one of their facilities for an appointment, they ask you screening questions and take your temperature before you enter.  They have sent us this information several times, by both mail and email, so we are fully aware of the correct procedures we need to follow.

My husband recently discovered he had been exposed to someone who later was hospitalized with Covid-19, so his doctor directed him to go to a specific facility where they tested him.  Fortunately, he tested negative!

If your physician provides you with information about what to do, make sure you understand it, so in an emergency, you go to the right location.  It could save your life.

Monitor Your Own Health

Before you make a medical appointment during the Covid-19 pandemic, you should monitor your own health, take steps to keep yourself healthy, and avoid seeing a doctor if it is not necessary.

Here are ways experts recommend you can reduce your Covid-19 risk:

     Stay home as much as possible
     Wear a face mask when you do need to leave the house
     Wash your hands and/or use hand sanitizer frequently
     Avoid touching your face without cleaning your hands first
     Eat healthy foods to keep your immune system strong
     Get aerobic exercise to maintain good lung capacity
     Take your temperature if you suspect something may be wrong
     Avoid coming within six feet of anyone outside your home.

If you do these things, you may be able to avoid Covid-19 until a vaccine is available, and keep other health problems to a minimum, as well.

However, if this pandemic goes on long enough, you may find that you need to see a doctor occasionally, especially if you are living with a chronic health condition.  What should you do if that happens?

Plan Your Routine Appointments

Whether you are planning to see your doctor in person, or doing it over the phone or by video chat, you should prepare ahead for the appointment, unless it is an emergency.  Here are some tips to guide you.

1.  If it is the first time you are seeing a new physician, or if it has been a long time since you have seen your doctor, or if you are concerned about a new medical issue, the visit should be in their office, despite Covid-19.  Your healthcare provider should take appropriate precautions to protect you.

Whenever you see a new physician, it is important to bring your medical history with you, including the following items:

List of your medications
Names of other doctors and specialists you see
List of prior surgeries and treatments
Known family history of illnesses
Any records you have of recent lab tests, hospital records and ER records
   
When you go to the appointment, ask if you can bring a family member with you, especially if you are afraid you might forget what the doctor tells you.

Whether it is a physician who is new to you, or one you have seen for years, you should take these precautions when you go to their office:

     Wear a face mask to your appointment
     Use hand sanitizer and wash your hands before and after your appointment

2.  If this is a follow-up appointment with a doctor you have seen before, ask if you can do it by phone or as a video chat.  In my experience, if you have any kind of virtual doctor's visit, it is easy to forget some of the things you wanted to ask.  As a result, before you get on the phone with the doctor, do the following:

     Review your current medications and treatments
     Write down all your questions in advance
     Ask a family member for other questions you may want to ask

 If possible, perform whatever do-it-yourself health tests you can at home.  For example, take your own temperature, blood pressure and pulse rate before your remote doctor's appointment. If you have a fingertip oximeter, which measures your blood oxygen levels, make a note of the number. Weigh yourself and mention to the doctor if there has been a significant change.   Note any other health changes you have experienced such as skin rashes, slow-healing sores, an increase in headaches, or intestinal problems.

When you talk with the doctor, take notes during your conversation. Make sure you understand any instructions the doctor gives you.  Ask follow-up questions if you are confused.

Ask a family member to join you on the call, if possible, so you have someone else who listens to what is said.  If the two of you remember something differently, email the doctor afterwards to make sure you have the correct information.
    

Call Ahead, If Possible, Before Going to the Emergency Room

It is not possible to plan so carefully for all medical visits.  If you suspect you are having a heart attack or stroke, bleeding heavily, broken a bone, or been injured in an accident, you may need to go immediately to Urgent Care or the Emergency Room of a local hospital. Depending on the situation, you may either want to call 911 and take an ambulance, or have a family member drive you to the local hospital.

If a family member is driving you, and there is time, it is important that you call your healthcare provider or the hospital to ask if they have any specific instructions you need to follow.  They may have a separate entrance or location for normal patients, in order to separate you from patients with suspected cases of Covid-19.  If you are having a heart attack, the last thing you need is to be accidentally exposed to Covid-19, too.

If possible, it is ideal if a family member can accompany you to the hospital or doctor's office.  If you are in pain or extremely ill, it may be difficult for you to answer questions, explain your symptoms, or remember what they tell you.  However, because of Covid-19, many healthcare providers will not allow anyone other than the patient to enter their facility.  This is another reason why it is important to know in advance what to expect.

Other Healthcare Appointments

Our dentist has temporarily stopped performing any services other than emergency dental care. You may want to check with your dentist and ask them what precautions they are taking in their office and when it will be safe for you to have a routine teeth cleaning.

My elderly father, who has trouble walking, has a physical therapist come to his apartment twice a week.  The therapist wears a face mask and gloves, and my father wears a face mask, too.  If you need to have a physical therapist, caregiver, or other healthcare provider come to your home, ask them what precautions they are taking, and follow up with precautions of your own, such as wearing a face mask, washing your hands, and disinfecting everything they touch.

My chiropractor is still doing adjustments, and has encouraged his patients to keep their appointments in his office.  Some people have gone, but I have not.  I felt it was something I could postpone as long as the number of Covid-19 cases are increasing steadily in my community.  My chiropractor assures everyone that they are keeping patients in separate rooms and disinfecting everything after each patient, but I still feel nervous.  This is something which everyone will have to decide on their own, depending on their personal situation, the pain they are experiencing, and the advice of their own doctors.


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The bottom line is that the longer Covid-19 is spreading through our communities, the more likely it is that something will happen which will require us to contact our doctors.  When that happens, it is important that you have a plan and fully understand the correct procedures.

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Saturday, May 2, 2020

'Retirement by Design' is a Helpful Workbook for Retirees and Those Planning Retirement

Do you wish you had someone to walk you through the complexities of planning your ideal retirement, especially if your original plans need revising because of stock market losses or an unexpected career change?  Are you confused by all the choices and opportunities you will have during the last phase of your life?  Are you worried you may not be able to afford to retire?  If so, you are not alone.  Many people ask themselves where they can afford to live after they stop working, what they should do with their time, how to deal with a reduced retirement account, and when would be the best time for them to retire. 

The helpful workbook, "Retirement by Design," (Ad) was written  by Ida Abbott, who has been a lawyer and legal consultant for over four decades.  She has helped mentor people through their professional careers from the start of their practice through retirement.  She brings design thinking to the process of retirement planning, and her insights will be very helpful to you.

Topics To Help You Design Your Retirement

A successful, satisfying retirement rarely happens accidentally.  This workbook walks you through a range of thought-provoking topics you should consider as you plan your retirement.  Among the topics you will find are:

What Do We Mean by Retirement Today?
Choosing a Personal Advisory Team
Exploring Your Attitudes and Feelings about Retirement
Starting Your Transition in Retirement
Knowing Who You Are and How You Got Here
The Impact of Retirement on Your Relationships
Potential Financial and Health Constraints
Getting Your Legal and Medical Arrangements in Order
Envisioning Your Future Life in Retirement
Organizing, Prioritizing, and Exploring Retirement Possibilities
Putting Together the Pieces: Designing Your Retirement Plan

How to Get the Most from this Workbook

"Retirement by Design" (Ad) is a book which would ideally be used by someone who is a few years away from retirement, although it is also helpful for people who have already retired and now find themselves feeling confused and struggling to get their retirement plan organized.  Whether you are just beginning to think about your future, or you are trying to reorganize the retirement you have already started, this workbook will be very helpful.

Each chapter asks relevant questions which are designed to help you clarify your thinking about what you want to do.  There are plenty of blank lines and charts following the questions, so you can jot your thoughts down in the book!  It will even help you transition out of a business you own, while guiding you to think about how to transfer your leadership roles and clients, and who you should tell about your transition plans.

This book will also guide your thinking about your past experiences and assist you in evaluating your risk tolerance.  You can list your favorite skills and consider how you may put them to use in the future.

Chapter 6 may be one of the most important, because it asks you to consider the impact of retirement on your relationships.  Is your spouse retiring at the same time?  Do you have a home-based spouse who works from a home office or is a homemaker?  How much togetherness do you want?  How much do they want?  This chapter also covers issues such as whether or not you should move to be near your children and grandchildren.  Are you willing to be a caregiver for your grandchildren? What if you have living, elderly parents?  How will your retirement affect them?  There are a lot of issues to consider in this chapter.

"Retirement by Design" (Ad) will also help you evaluate your Social Security and Medicare benefits, estate planning, medical directives and many of the legal issues you need to consider.

Finally, the book will guide you in discovering how you want to spend your free time during the final decades of your life.  Where do you want to live?  What hobbies would you like to pursue?  Do you need to earn extra income?  Would you like to volunteer?  Do you have a travel bucket list?

Retirement by Design was released in February 2020 by Ulysees Press. In it, the author utilizes the design thinking principles of empathy, definition, ideating, prototyping, and testing to help formulate what this season of life could look like for every individual. These innovative business principles will help you have a more fulfilling and meaningful retirement.  They will guide you in making decisions about location, finances, engagement in organizations, activities and interpersonal relationships.

Although retirement comes with many fears, Ida believes that the best way to deal with those fears is to acknowledge that they exist and take control of them. You've heard it a million times:  There's no right time to retire.  However, there are steps a person can take to set themselves up to achieve the dreams they have for the next phase of life.  This workbook will lessen the burden and help you design and live a life of purpose, enjoyment, and fulfillment.

By the time you have worked your way through this book, you will have a much clearer idea about the right retirement plan for you, and how to put it into action.  The book is available as both a paperback workbook, as well as on Kindle.  The paperback workbook is just a few dollars more than the Kindle version and I recommend it, because you can write your thoughts directly in the book and have everything in one place.

 More about Ida Abbott:

She is a former attorney and current professional consultant focusing on the power of mentoring relationships to guide, support, and transform professional careers from the beginning of practice through retirement.  She has long been a leader in the field of talent management, particularly mentoring, sponsorship, and the advancement of women into leadership. Over more than four decades as a lawyer and legal consultant, and recognition of a lifetime of achievement, Abbott has held leadership positions in numerous bar associations, women's organizations, and professional organizations in the U.S. and internationally. She was a co-founder of the Hastings Leadership Academy for Women and the Professional Development Consortium, and is now a sought-after speaker and the author of several books, including The Lawyer's Guide to Mentoring, 2nd Edition, (Ad) and Sponsoring Women: What Men Need to Know. (Ad)

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Saturday, April 25, 2020

'A Delightful Little Book on Aging" is an Uplifting Book



How do you feel about getting older?  Are you enjoying your golden years, or fighting the idea of aging every step of the way?  Do you see your age as a necessary evil, or an experience to be embraced? To be honest, I did not think a whole lot about how I was aging until I was sent a charming collection of essays by Stephanie Raffelock.  These short essays opened my mind and heart to all the grace, gratitude and joy we can experience in this final stage of our lives.

A New Perspective on Aging

When I get together with friends, we often decry all the inconveniences of getting older ... stiff joints, sore muscles, forgetfulness and fatigue, to name a few. We are also saddened by the losses we have experienced and sometimes feel as though we are being treated dismissively by younger generations. However, after reading this book, I now find myself wondering what it would be like if we focused instead on our wisdom, experience, and the free time we now have to explore new interests and reclaim old ones.  Wouldn't that be a better way to view this period in our lives?

"A Delightful Little Book on Aging" (Ad) gave me a new perspective on the gifts which I have experienced by being older.  It was a joy to read, and with so much that is stressful in our lives right now, this could be the perfect time to read it.

An Uplifting View about Getting Older

Stephanie Raffelock's book is divided into four thought-provoking sections.  They are listed below, along with my thoughts and some of my favorite excerpts from each part of the book.

Grief - "Aging begins in grief.  Loss and letting go become part of the landscape."

In these essays she talks about how we grieve not just when someone dies, but also for the loss of our own youth, the end of friendships, our declining health, and the feeling we are no longer significant.  We can learn to experience our grief, however, and not get stuck in it.

Reclamation - "Life takes things away with one hand and offers something with the other hand.  This is what I call 'reclamation.'  Did you leave a musician, a writer, a wild woman behind? Reclaim that part of yourself now."

As I read this section, I thought about all the retirees I know who are selling their art work, writing books and blogs, starting a 60's band, taking ballroom dancing classes, traveling, and fulfilling their "bucket list."  Instead of seeing this period of our lives as a time of loss, many of my peers are reclaiming their past dreams and seeing them come to fruition.

Vision - "The practice of being so fully in life that you feel joy in the smallest things. The vision of the older years belongs to a wiser, deepened soul, steeped in wonder and delight for life."

Isn't this the way all of us want to approach the final years of our lives, full of joy, gratitude, new friendships, creativity, and love?  Isn't this the legacy we would like to leave for the younger men and women in our lives?  We all need to embrace our vision of the life we want to live, and we want those who come after us to do the same.

Laughter - "There is nothing like recalling the good old days with stories that make us laugh."

My husband and I often cackle with joy at a funny memory of an incident from years ago.  We laugh at the time we misread an invitation and arrived at a friend's home for a party which was still a week in the future; we laugh at silly things our children said or did; we laugh at all the surprising and unexpected things which have happened during our lives.  We also enjoy spending time with old friends for the same reason, to relive our happy memories.  Being able to look at the past with a sense of humor is a true blessing as we grow older.

Why this Book was Written

After writing countless articles on the importance of memoirs and legacy, the author Stephanie Raffelock witnessed a growing concern among women writers as they approached their 60s. One of their main concerns was the fear of confronting the stigmas of aging.

Too often, women have been taught to shy away from aging, and Stephanie aims to change that expectation.  Age is more than just a number.  It's a badge of honor to have lived long enough to know that the life in front of us is far shorter than the life we have already lived.  To that end, these years seem more precious, more miraculous, and certainly more deserving of our very best selves. There has never been a better time to be old than today.  Yet, in a culture that all too quickly embraces botox to make wrinkles disappear, many wrestle with what getting older really means.

Stephanie is a firm believer that we cannot transcend aging with some sort of magical formula, but we can transcend worn-out attitudes that do not lend themselves to making aging a positive experience.  Stephanie strives to bring a new voice to the conversation and encourages people to embrace aging instead of shying away from it.

In "A Delightful Little Book on Aging," her first book with She Writes Press, which was released in the spring of 2020, Stephanie discusses everything from ageism in athletic leisure styling to selectivity in volunteering.  Even as she digs deeper into the topics of grief and the vision about what our later years can look like, Stephanie walks us through ways to reclaim aging with grace, excitement, and a touch of humor.

A Refreshing View of Life After 50

If you want to regain a fresh perspective on your life, you will enjoy reading "A Delightful Little Book on Aging."  (Ad) Throughout the book, I found myself nodding my head, agreeing with the author.  Yes, I would tell myself, I sometimes feel like that, and I love being able to see things in a new light!  Enjoy this new book by Stephanie Raffellock.

More about author Stephanie Raffelock:

She is part of a generation of women who are reinventing their later years and looking for camaraderie and inspiration.  A graduate of Naropa University's program in Writing and Poetics, she has penned articles for numerous publications, including The Aspen Times, Quilter's Magazine, Care2.com, Nexus Magazine, Omaha Lifestyles, The Roque Valley Messenger and SixtyandMe.com. She is also the host of Coffee Table Wisdom, a podcast that is a revolution in positive aging.  

To learn more about common issues as we age, Medicare, Social Security, financial planning, health problems, where to retire and more, use the tabs or pull down menu at the top of the page to find links to hundreds of additional helpful articles.

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Saturday, April 18, 2020

In-Home Caregivers and Covid-19: Why Your Caregiver Should Continue to Come


Kelsey Simpson recommends keeping caregivers during Covid-19.

With the Covid-19 pandemic sweeping the world, many of the elderly and people with fragile health are concerned about having in-home caregivers.  Should they continue to allow people to come into their home to cook their meals, or assist them with showers, dressing and other personal services?  Without a caregiver, however, will their quality of life suffer?  Because so many people have questions about this topic, I was delighted when Kelsey Simpson with Comfort Keepers offered to write a guest post to help our readers understand why they may be better off keeping their in-home caregivers.  Her guest post is below. 

The Importance of Continuing In-Home Senior Care During the COVID-19 Pandemic

by Kelsey Simpson

The COVID-19 pandemic is a trying and uncertain time for people of all ages all over the world. This global pandemic is forcing people to stay in their homes until further notice, preventing them from seeing friends, family, coworkers, and even doctors and other healthcare providers. Due to this global pandemic, people are sacrificing important appointments, such as seeing their doctor and getting their monthly or yearly checkups. This can put their health in jeopardy. However, the demographic which is in the most jeopardy are the seniors who stop their in-home care service.

Elderly people are at a higher risk of dying if they contract the COVID-19 virus; with that being said, most elderly people are doing all they can to avoid contact with other people who do not live in their household, including senior care workers. Though seniors should take necessary precautions to avoid other humans, they should not avoid seeing their health care providers, including their in-home senior caregivers.

Should I Continue In-Home Care For My Loved One During the COVID-19 Crisis?
  
The answer is yes. Though seniors should do what they can to avoid contact with all other people, in-home senior care workers are an exception because they are necessary for the seniors' care. In-home senior care is crucial for many aging adults. In fact, so many aging adults depend on it that, if they were to stop using their services, their quality of life and health would likely deteriorate quickly. Below are some of the reasons why seniors should continue their in-home senior care services, despite the global pandemic. 

Family Members Might Not Care For the Elderly in the Same Way

If you are a family member who is in charge of dealing with an aging loved one’s senior care, it is important you understand why you should continue the caregiver service during these difficult times. One of the most important reasons you should continue in-home care is that you may not be able to care for your loved one the same way the care service does. If you are unable to provide the quality care that your loved one needs, his or her quality of life or health could be greatly impacted in a negative way.

If you are the person whose relative is using an in-home care service, it is likely you already recognized in the past that you were unable to care for your aging loved one on your own. Maybe your loved one requires 24/7 special care, or you have a demanding career and a family of your own which you need to care for. Whatever the case may be, seniors rely on an in-home service for a reason, and stopping this care may have a direct impact on their health and well-being. 

Change Could Distress Your Loved One

In addition to not knowing how to care for your loved one, if you drastically change their life, you may distress him or her. It is common for seniors to resist change, or to not understand the reason for the change, especially if they have early stages of dementia. If you pause their in-home senior care service, you run the risk of distressing them by stopping their needed quality care.  You also run the risk of confusing them.

Distressing elderly people can result in mental and physical pain and discomfort. Similarly, if your aging loved one is upset, it may become even more difficult for you to care for them. As a result, the assistance of an in-home senior care service can be essential to their happiness and well-being, as well as your own. 

An In-Home Nurse is a Good Precaution Against Covid-19

In-home nursing care is one of the best ways for seniors to actually prevent contracting the COVID-19 virus. In-home nurses will provide quality care for seniors, which will keep them as healthy as possible during this global pandemic. A well-trained caregiver will take all necessary precautions to keep them healthy, something the elderly may not be able to do on their own. This may include taking steps to boost the patient's immune system, assisting in their cleanliness, and making sure the aging adult is getting the proper rest, which is necessary in order to stay healthy. In-home nurses will also take sanitation and cleanliness very seriously, making sure to keep the health of their patients in mind in everything they do.

In-Home Care That Goes Above and Beyond

In-home senior care is crucial for those who are elderly or frail, no matter what in going on outside the home, including during a global pandemic. Caregivers will do everything they can to keep your elderly loved one safe, healthy and comfortable during these difficult times. 

In order to ensure the health of your loved one, make sure that your caregiver is wearing the proper preventative pieces, such as gloves and a mask. If your caregiver does not have access to these things, as they are becoming quite scarce, do your best to provide him or her with whatever personal protective equipment they need.  It will be worthwhile for both you and your loved one’s safety and peace-of-mind.

About the Author:
Kelsey Simpson enjoys writing about issues which help others. She lives in South Jersey, is the proud companion to two German Shepherds, and spends her free time volunteering in dog shelters.

If you or a caregiver is taking care of a family member who is sick at home with symptoms of Covid-19, or even the regular flu (which is bad enough), you may wonder how to care for them.  A helpful book for family members or caregivers is:  "Pandemic Flu Home Care: A Detailed Guide for Caring for the Ill at Home."

To learn more about common medical problems as we age, Medicare, Social Security, financial planning, where to retire and more, use the tabs or pull down menu at the top of the page to find links to hundreds of additional helpful articles.

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