Wednesday, September 10, 2025

Moving to a Continuing Care Retirement Community




The Calligraphy CCRC in Napa, CA
"If you wait until you are sick, it will be too late." These were the words one of my daughters said as she stood behind me in the office of the Continuing Care Retirement Community I was visiting near her home.  She and her sisters had been of tremendous help while their father, my husband, was dying the year before, and they were afraid that eventually they would be in charge of taking care of me at the end of my life.  I know how difficult it was for them and I wanted to save them from having to go through that experience again.  

At the same time, my husband and I had been married for over 50 years before he died, and I had never made a major decision without being able to discuss it with him.  I worried that I might be making a bad financial decision, or doing something I would regret.  However, my daughters pointed out that I had been looking at a variety of CCRCs for years, even while my husband was alive.  I had simply never made the commitment to move into one.  As I wrote the check for the deposit, I realized I had finally made the decision.

If you are considering moving into a CCRC, either by yourself or as a couple, here are some things you should consider.

What is a CCRC?

A Continuing Care Retirement Community, or CCRC, is designed to give senior citizens confidence that they will have a home where they will be cared for until the end of their life, whether they become frail, or develop dementia, cancer or any other serious health condition.  Meals and housekeeping are generally provided, as well as a variety of age appropriate activities.  They usually have staff on hand to assist you if you fall or need to be taken to a hospital.  It is NOT the same as a skilled nursing home.  While living in a CCRC, you may go into a nursing home to rehabilitate from a serious health situation, such as heart surgery. However, once you are able, you can return to your own apartment in your CCRC where they will provide follow-up care, such as bringing meals to your apartment and checking to make sure you are OK.

Preparing to Move into a CCRC

How do you get ready to move into a CCRC? First, as my daughter pointed out, you want to make the decision while you are still healthy enough to handle the stress and experience of going through a move.  As my daughter said, if you wait until you are very sick, it will be too hard for you to do everything necessary.

The first thing you will need to do is to downsize the number of possessions you plan to take with you.  In most cases, you will be moving into an apartment or cottage that is much smaller than your current home.  

I did this by giving away and selling most of my furniture, which was too large for my new apartment.  I kept my nightstands and bedroom dresser, but not my king size bed.  I gave my formal dining furniture to a daughter.  I also gave away my large sofa and matching love seat.  In addition, I donated or gave to adult grandchildren nearly all my kitchen supplies.

What did I keep?  I kept the things which meant the most to me.  I kept my clothing, bathroom supplies, books, photo albums, favorite artwork, my digital Aura frame, family photos, and a few favorite antiques and items of furniture that would help me put a personal stamp on my new home.  In addition, I purchased a queen size bed and a couple of lift recliners, which would be helpful after the knee surgery I expect to get in the near future. 

Moving into Your CCRC

Despite the dozens of items, and hundreds of pounds of belongings which I gave away, I was overwhelmed by the number of boxes I had when I moved into my new apartment.  Even though I thought I had given away everything which I did not need, I quickly discovered that I still had more than I needed. At the suggestion of the move-in assistant at my new community, I hired a woman who helped me unpack and find a place for most of my possessions. This kept me from becoming depressed at all I needed to do.

I also made a number of trips to the dumpster after I moved into my new retirement community.  It would have been better to downsize even more before my move.

If I have one recommendation, it is to be brutal about getting rid of things before you move.  You will not need very much in your new home.  For example, I love yoga and brought along three yoga mats. However, I discovered that the community has plenty of nice yoga mats which I could use.  I gave away two, and still kept one of my yoga mats, but certainly did not need to keep all of them.

Adjusting to Life in a CCRC

After I got my possessions unpacked, I realized there would be an adjustment period.  I missed my old friends in the community where I had lived before.  I had trouble remembering the names of the other 150+ residents in my new community.  I was unsure what to do, where to sit at dinner, and which activities to join. In general, I felt insecure, like a new kid at school. This is normal, but still a very uncomfortable feeling.

Fortunately, I soon met another new woman, and we began to eat dinner together and invite other people to join us.  This made it easier to get to know the other residents.  However, we had to initiate meeting other people, although everyone was friendly and kind when we approached them. We decided that the two of us would sit down in the evenings at a table set for six, and then ask other people to sit with us.

I have also found it is helpful to participate in as many activities as possible.  In just the first few weeks of living here, I have gone to art and exercise classes, made a wreath for my door, played Bingo, listened to live music in the main lobby, and joined a trivia game. I also plan to go on some of the excursions which are being organized by the community and will probably join the book club.

Be Patient After You Move

It is important to be patient after you move into a Continuing Care Retirement Community.  It may feel quiet and a little lonely, at first, until you get into the swing of things.  It will take time to meet other people and decide which activities you enjoy. You will be rebuilding your life in a new community, with new people, and it will take time to adjust.  

I have to admit I have had my moments of panic, when I wanted to reverse course and move back to the community where I lived before moving here.  However, I know how much that would hurt and worry my daughters.

Do Not Wait Until You are Frail

Some people wait until they are already frail before they move to a CCRC.  They may be on chemotherapy after a cancer diagnosis, or they could have advanced Parkinson's disease, suffering from Alzheimer's, or experiencing other severe medical problems. 

If you wait until that point, it will be difficult for you to participate in planning your move and deciding what you want to bring with you. It will also be more difficult for you to make friends and become active in the new community. You could end up going directly into a skilled nursing home, rather than choosing a comfortable CCRC.  It is better to move into a CCRC while you feel somewhat healthy and you are able to make new friends and participate in the activities which are offered.

If you follow these suggestions, you are likely to have a very pleasant experience and enjoy your new home.  Remember, you can still stay in touch with your old friends and, if you choose a CCRC near your family, you will be able to see them, too. The loneliness and awkwardness will eventually go away.


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Monday, September 1, 2025

5 Mistakes Business Owners Should Avoid When Retiring


Retiring from the business which you have owned and guided for several years is no small task. It requires careful planning, forward thinking, and often some tough decisions. 

Although the process can be overwhelming, it’s also crucial to avoid blunders that can make this process even more difficult. If you’re ready to make this significant transition in your life, here are five mistakes business owners should avoid when retiring. 

Having No Retirement or Succession Plan

One major misstep you should avoid is not having a solid retirement or succession plan in place. Without a clear strategy, you risk leaving your business in chaos and jeopardizing your financial future.

A retirement plan outlines your personal financial needs, while a succession plan ensures your company will continue to operate smoothly under new leadership. Start planning early to avoid unnecessary stress down the road.

Presuming Your Kids Want the Company

It’s easy for business owners to think their children will want to take over the family business. However, this presumption can lead to hurt feelings or unmet expectations when kids have different career aspirations. 

Before making any long-term decisions, have an honest conversation with your children about their plans and interests. Knowing their intentions will help you decide whether to seek an external buyer or explore other leadership options.

Shutting the Business Down

Another mistake business owners should avoid when retiring is shutting down their companies. Your business likely represents years of hard work, and closing it may not provide the best return on your investment. 

Instead, explore alternatives like selling it, merging with another company, or transitioning it to a new owner. These options can help preserve the legacy you’ve built, while easing your financial burden. You may even be able to structure a sale which allows you to have an ongoing income for years in the future, either because the new owners are making payments to you, or because you are receiving a salary as a consultant.

Not Knowing Your Business’s Worth

You should also avoid selling your business without knowing its actual value. Doing so may cause you to undervalue it during negotiations, leaving money on the table, or overprice it, which can discourage potential buyers. 

Instead, make sure you have an idea of its worth before you start this process. People have often found the use of a business valuation calculator to be beneficial since it can give them an initial sense of a price before seeking out the assistance of a business broker.

Using the Sale for Their Retirement

Some business owners rely entirely on selling their companies to fund their retirements. Although this plan may seem logical, this strategy comes with significant risks. 

The market might not deliver the price you expect, or buyers may not materialize quickly. Instead, diversify your retirement savings with a combination of personal investments and savings plans to avoid putting all your eggs in one basket. The sale of your business should be just one part of your retirement plans.

 By avoiding these common mistakes, you’ll protect both your financial future and the company you have worked so hard to build. Take the time to plan thoughtfully and leave your business in a strong position, ensuring a rewarding retirement for years to come.

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Sunday, August 17, 2025

Outdoor Activities Can Improve Your Health After Age 55


You can boost your heart health, strengthen your bones, and lift your mood with easy outdoor activities which are perfect for adults 55 and older. Start feeling better today.

Getting older doesn’t mean slowing down. Many adults over 55 find that spending time outside makes them feel younger, stronger, and more active.

Being outdoors can do more than just lift your mood. It can improve your heart, bones, balance, and brain. This guide shows how outdoor activities can improve your health after 55 and gives easy ideas to start today.

Stronger Heart, One Step at a Time

Walking, hiking, or doing yard work outside gives your heart a workout. Moving your body makes your heart pump better and keeps your blood flowing.

Even a short 20-minute walk around the neighborhood can lower blood pressure and reduce the risk of heart problems. Simple outdoor movement can add years to your life and make each day feel better.

Sunshine and Movement Strengthen Bones

Time in the sun helps your body make vitamin D, which supports strong bones. Limit your direct sun exposure without sunscreen to about 20 minutes.  Gentle outdoor activities, such as gardening, walking, or light hiking, also work your muscles and bones. These small movements can build bone strength and lower the chance of injuries or falls.

Nature Lifts Mood and Lowers Stress

Spending time in nature can clear the mind and reduce stress. Parks, forests, rivers and other outdoor settings help people feel calmer and more at peace.

Just being outside in the fresh air and sunlight can brighten your day and lower anxiety. Nature can help you improve your mental health in ways indoor time can’t, whether sitting near a tree, walking a trail, or working in the garden.

Keep Your Mind Active Outside

Many outdoor activities make the brain work in new ways. Learning how to birdwatch, take nature photos, or use a map can help you keep your brain sharp. Being outside often means paying attention to your surroundings, noticing details, and remembering steps or directions. Depending on where you live, there are many beautiful parks, lakes and rivers to enjoy. Make outdoor activities part of your vacation plans. For example, if you are traveling to Idaho, Explore the Salmon River for a new challenge, beautiful views, and peaceful trails that offer fun and focus.

Better Balance and Flexibility Without the Gym

Walking on uneven ground, reaching for plants, or stepping over rocks builds balance and keeps the body flexible. These natural movements train the body in ways that are useful for daily life. Outdoor tasks often feel more fun and less like “exercise,” which makes them easier to stick with over time.

Take the First Step Toward Better Health

How outdoor activities can improve your health after 55 is something you can feel right away. You should start with something simple that fits your lifestyle, such as daily walks, easy gardening, or time at a local park.

No fancy gear, just stepping outside can lead to a stronger body, a sharper mind, and a brighter mood. Start small, stay active, and enjoy every step.

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Tuesday, August 5, 2025

Renovate Your Home in Preparation for Retirement


Research shows that the majority of retirees, especially those who own their own home, hope to age in place and remain in their home as long as possible.  Everyone who chooses to do this deserves the opportunity to age in place gracefully. With careful home renovations before retirement, you can achieve this goal safely.

Embarking on smart home renovations is a powerful investment in your long-term well-being. More than just modern conveniences, these upgrades allow you to create a truly adaptive space that fosters comfort, safety, and independence throughout every stage of life. From automated systems that reduce daily chores to voice-activated controls that ensure accessibility, you can tailor your environment to serve you perfectly. We can show you how to implement these forward-thinking solutions, turning your residence into a home that not only provides comfort today but is also fully prepared to support you tomorrow, ensuring it works for your needs for years to come.

Build Out Your Budget

The cost of remodeling a small home in its entirety can range from $50,000 to $150,000, depending on your location and design choices. Your first step is to research local contractors, and get multiple quotes for any major work.

Set aside 20% of your budget for unexpected needs. For example, you may be able to walk upstairs easily today, but you could need a stair lift in five years. Having money ready for future changes takes the stress out of adapting your home as your needs evolve.

Consider timing your renovations with your retirement planning. Many people find it easier to manage major projects while they still have steady income from work.  It could be much more stressful to pay for major renovations after you have retired.

Make Safety Upgrades

Simple changes can prevent dangerous falls and keep you secure in your home. Consider replacing worn carpet with nonslip flooring and adding grab bars in key locations throughout your house.  If possible, install rails which you can hold onto on both sides of your staircase.

Focus extra attention on your bathroom, where wet surfaces create the most risk for accidents. Install a walk-in shower with a built-in seat, nonslip flooring, and plenty of lighting. Add grab bars near the toilet and shower, and consider a raised toilet seat for easier use.

Improve lighting throughout your home, especially in hallways and staircases. Motion-sensor lights help you navigate safely at night without fumbling for switches.

Open up Your Floorplan

When you begin planning significant layout changes, it's crucial to think beyond your current needs and envision the flow of your daily life for years to come. Carefully consider your everyday routines—from your path from the bedroom to the kitchen in the morning, to navigating spaces while carrying groceries.

Proactively planning for future accessibility at this stage is essential. This means designing pathways, hallways, and doorways to be wide enough to comfortably accommodate mobility aids such as walkers, scooters, or wheelchairs. Strive for at least 36-inch-wide doorways and clear, open areas, especially in critical zones like the kitchen and bathrooms, where a 5-foot turning radius can make all the difference. These deliberate adjustments are not just minor conveniences; they are important changes which will become essential for maintaining your independence, dignity, and ease of movement throughout your home.

Consider Integrating Smart Technology

Smart technology is designed to make life easier and more secure. These devices can be an important part of renovating your home in preparation for retirement. For example, a smart thermostat can adjust your home’s temperature effortlessly. Video doorbells let you see who’s at the door for added safety, and you can even speak with them without leaving your armchair. Voice-controlled devices can manage lights, play music, or call for help, and smart locks allow only trusted friends and family to access your home.

Now that you know how to renovate your home in preparation for retirement, it’s time to get started. These renovations can create the foundation for independence and comfort in your retirement years. Start planning now to enjoy the benefits of a well-designed home in the future.


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Monday, July 21, 2025

Budgeting For Your College-Bound Grandchild


Millions of grandparents are now raising their grandchildren, or providing for them financially.  Just at the time the grandparents are trying to secure their own retirement, they are often faced with trying to help their grandchildren attend college in an affordable way. Learn how you can support your college-bound grandchild without draining your savings by using the following tips on budgeting, financial responsibility, and affordable ways to help them succeed.

Sending your grandchild off to college can be exciting, but it’s also a little daunting if you’re their primary caregiver. Balancing the costs of their education while protecting your financial stability is essential. With these tips for supporting your college-bound grandchild within your budget, you can help them achieve their academic goals without draining your bank account.

Prioritize a Budget for Financial Contributions

Before spending any money, start by evaluating how much you can allocate without disrupting your monthly expenses or long-term savings. Identify expenses you can adjust, such as dining out or subscription services, and redirect the savings toward a “college support” fund. Consider setting a clear limit with your grandchild on how much financial assistance you can provide, whether it’s helping with tuition, books, or living expenses.

Additionally, explore scholarships and grants together. Many organizations offer scholarships for students with unique family caregiving situations. Assist your grandchild in applying early to maximize their chances of securing these opportunities. Encourage your grandchild to apply often for scholarships, even when they do not think they have a chance.  They might be surprised!

Encourage Cost-Effective College Choices

Have an honest conversation with your grandchild about selecting an affordable college. Community colleges and public universities often provide an excellent education and can significantly cut down costs. Look into campuses that offer in-state tuition discounts or commuter options.

Discuss alternatives like starting at a local community college and transferring to a four-year institution later. This approach can save thousands of dollars. Remind them that prestigious schools aren’t the only path to success, and affordability should be a priority.

Help Them Understand Financial Responsibility

An important part of supporting your college-bound grandchild within your budget is teaching them about managing their own finances. Guide them in creating a budget for living expenses, textbooks, transportation, and incidentals.

Encourage them to track their spending and look for ways to cut costs, such as buying used or digital textbooks or using public transportation. Introduce the idea of part-time jobs or paid internships during their college years. These positions can provide valuable income and create a sense of independence without interfering with their studies. Some of the most successful students are often the ones who work part-time during their college years.  In addition, many colleges offer scholarships and even pay their students who participate in sports.  There are many ways students can contribute financially to their education.

Affordable Solutions for their Study Area

Making a conducive environment for studying at home is another way to show that you support their education. For an innovative, cost-friendly solution, consider a floating desk, which can be set up anywhere in your home and give them a designated workspace for studying when they are at home. A floating workspace is similar to an extra wide shelf which can be used for other purposes when your student no longer needs it.

A floating desk is a practical and affordable solution for their workspace. With its simple design, a floating desk takes up minimal room, making it perfect for smaller areas within your home.

Look for other affordable ways to give your student a quiet, private place to study in a corner of your home or in their bedroom. Show them that they do not need a lot of space in order to be an effective student. 

Student Loans as a Last Resort

Once you have tried every other way to provide for your grandchild's education in an economical way, talk to the school's financial aid office about other options. These might include grants, student loans, or a work-study program.  If you or your student decide to take out loans, try to keep them to a minimum, and remind your student that they may be paying on these loans for 20 years after they graduate.  If you can avoid loans, that is ideal.  However, if absolutely necessary, getting a small loan may be the best way to fill the gap between what you can afford and what they need in order to get an education.

Maintain Your Financial Security

Being a primary caregiver to a grandchild heading off to college is a special role, but it requires thoughtful planning. By setting financial boundaries, encouraging practical decisions, and offering resources within your means, you can contribute to their success without compromising your own future.

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